Good morning, The story below is a real story of what someone is currently passing through. I listened to everything this fellow had to say but i had nothing to say because i wasn't wearing the shoes. I asked the fellow to read the blog today, so please read and leave your comments advicing this fellow on what to do...
I had this long talk with an orphaned young man. He told me he was the last of 5 Kids. His father died when he was young, his father was a well established man , but his father's brothers won't let them be. Several years later his mother passed on.
His problem is not the passing on of his parents, its the way he is being treated by his brother ( the administrator of his father's wealth) and brother's wife . He is a 25year old fellow without a degree. He has been trying to get into school, but whenever they are about to hit the target, his brother says their is no money in the family, he has to wait. Once he asked for money to go to the school where he intended to get admission, he only needed transport money and some money to feed, his brother told him that their is no money, even though the tenants had just payed up their rents. His brother enrolled his kid into a very expensive private school but he refused to give his own blood brother money for transport him (bear in mind that this brother of his doesnt have a job, and his wife is also a house wife). What touched me and my heart boil was the fact that he was so sure that it was his brothers wife that is turning his brother against him and the rest of the family. He told me how on one ocassion his own brother locked him out of the house and asked to go and look for somewhere to sleep that night, and another incedent of when his brothers wife told him that she forgot to make food for him, she was tired to go back to the kitchen so he should go out and get something for himself. Meanwhile she and his brother where seated on the dinning and eating, and no one gave him money to go and fetch the food. ( He told me about his feeding conditions and how sometimes he has to buy food stuff for him self.)
He went further to tell me how they stripped the sitting room of the television and the sound system, so he is left with his blackberry which his other struggling siblings try to recharge from him.
He is at his breaking point and asking for help. what can he do so he doesn't loose his head, He is tired.

His problem is not the passing on of his parents, its the way he is being treated by his brother ( the administrator of his father's wealth) and brother's wife . He is a 25year old fellow without a degree. He has been trying to get into school, but whenever they are about to hit the target, his brother says their is no money in the family, he has to wait. Once he asked for money to go to the school where he intended to get admission, he only needed transport money and some money to feed, his brother told him that their is no money, even though the tenants had just payed up their rents. His brother enrolled his kid into a very expensive private school but he refused to give his own blood brother money for transport him (bear in mind that this brother of his doesnt have a job, and his wife is also a house wife). What touched me and my heart boil was the fact that he was so sure that it was his brothers wife that is turning his brother against him and the rest of the family. He told me how on one ocassion his own brother locked him out of the house and asked to go and look for somewhere to sleep that night, and another incedent of when his brothers wife told him that she forgot to make food for him, she was tired to go back to the kitchen so he should go out and get something for himself. Meanwhile she and his brother where seated on the dinning and eating, and no one gave him money to go and fetch the food. ( He told me about his feeding conditions and how sometimes he has to buy food stuff for him self.)
He went further to tell me how they stripped the sitting room of the television and the sound system, so he is left with his blackberry which his other struggling siblings try to recharge from him.
He is at his breaking point and asking for help. what can he do so he doesn't loose his head, He is tired.
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