To define this will take a while so i am not even going to try. For those that have the opportunity to enjoy this they are blessed. When you get married and you become as bored and irritated with your partner you know it is time to look inward, take a breathe and start again. I heard this story on the radio on Sunday while i was driving to church;
This couple dated for 7 years and while they where dating it was quite a jolly drive for them they enjoyed themselves and was looking forward to getting married. 1 month to their wedding date, they began to feel differently about themselves, and they felt it was the strain/pressure of the planning. They both thought of opting out but decided to go own because they have sent the invitations out. Now it is a year and six months after their wedding and they still fight like cat an mice, so the husband called the radio asking that he be advised on what to do. I waited to hear what people will say to them, and i never heard the simple most difficult truth, "TRACE YOUR STEPS TILL YOU GET BACK TO THAT ONE THING THAT BROUGHT YOU TOGETHER". It isn't as easy as it sounds, but that is the truth, when you find this place you will savour it, you can have your second honey moon.
Most couples don't believe that a lot of other married people have been though this. When they see them smiling and walking down the road with their hands locked, they think that is has always been. Let me give you a sneak into mine. Exactly 1 month to my wedding, i met a guy on skype ( i do not easily make friends and i can't remember adding him) it was his birthday and i wished him a jolly birthday. I was already getting bored with my spouse,( then fiancee) so i asked my skype friend where the party was and he said he has already had it but will take me out one evening if i wished, I WISHED OOH so i went out and i had fun at that time. When i got home i thought in my tiny head, that this guy can be fun, i and wanted to go out more. I did stupid things and almost called off my wedding not caring. I went ahead with my wedding but i reconditioned my mind. i talked to myself, and i walked back to where we (my husband and I) both met he was still waiting. I began to see the best in him and all in him, now i can say we are at our Second honey moon.
Hmmm, now i can try to define second honey Moon. It is the longest honey moon you will ever have, it lasts forever.
This couple dated for 7 years and while they where dating it was quite a jolly drive for them they enjoyed themselves and was looking forward to getting married. 1 month to their wedding date, they began to feel differently about themselves, and they felt it was the strain/pressure of the planning. They both thought of opting out but decided to go own because they have sent the invitations out. Now it is a year and six months after their wedding and they still fight like cat an mice, so the husband called the radio asking that he be advised on what to do. I waited to hear what people will say to them, and i never heard the simple most difficult truth, "TRACE YOUR STEPS TILL YOU GET BACK TO THAT ONE THING THAT BROUGHT YOU TOGETHER". It isn't as easy as it sounds, but that is the truth, when you find this place you will savour it, you can have your second honey moon.
Most couples don't believe that a lot of other married people have been though this. When they see them smiling and walking down the road with their hands locked, they think that is has always been. Let me give you a sneak into mine. Exactly 1 month to my wedding, i met a guy on skype ( i do not easily make friends and i can't remember adding him) it was his birthday and i wished him a jolly birthday. I was already getting bored with my spouse,( then fiancee) so i asked my skype friend where the party was and he said he has already had it but will take me out one evening if i wished, I WISHED OOH so i went out and i had fun at that time. When i got home i thought in my tiny head, that this guy can be fun, i and wanted to go out more. I did stupid things and almost called off my wedding not caring. I went ahead with my wedding but i reconditioned my mind. i talked to myself, and i walked back to where we (my husband and I) both met he was still waiting. I began to see the best in him and all in him, now i can say we are at our Second honey moon.
Hmmm, now i can try to define second honey Moon. It is the longest honey moon you will ever have, it lasts forever.
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