ITS SAFE THERE JUST SHUT IT.

Yes its safe in your mouth. Women especially have the urge to share information "GIST" with other people. Its either for advice or for fun. We are most times unaware of the outcome or balls we send rolling when we tell another woman how good our man is or what he likes..
I am learning to drink a cup of water everytime i feel like spilling, or chatting about something i consider little. Its my business not gossip so sweetie take it elsewhere.
Women and some men have the need to babble, sit down doing nothing except quipping about other peoples things. Me i had decided long time ago not to get involved with other peoples bussiness because handling my bussiness takes longer than 24 hrs.
Apart from keeping your mouth shut, we should learn to talk about things that we are sure won't hurt us if ever replied because it will be replied to as gossip just keeps moving even when you think it is  safe.